One of these things is not like the others.

In a room filled with African heads of state, captains of industry, leaders of international development and countless executives from NGOs at the G8 Symposium on Global Agriculture and Food Security in Washington, D.C. late last week, stood one Irish rock star — Bono, the lead singer of U2 and co-founder of the ONE Campaign.

At first blush (to the uninitiated, perhaps), Bono’s presence might seem incongruous, but most of the folks in the room at the Ronald Reagan building a few blocks down Pennsylvania Avenue know the Irishman more for his tireless humanitarian efforts than his closet full of Grammy awards. For more than 25 years, Bono, 52, has been involved deeply and effectively in international affairs as a champion for the poorest of the poor.

“We’ve seen the bleached bones of livestock, we’ve seen emaciated children, the withered crops,” Sen. Pat Leahy said during his introduction of Bono, a dear friend of his for decades. “If we don’t find some way to respond to this then we’ve failed, we’ve failed as a world and it’s a shame on our collective souls….[Bono has been] a passionate powerful voice, he’s stepped up, he’s inspired me he’s inspired others

“Because of him, there are millions of people millions of children, who have a better life today, who will never know Bono, who will never meet Bono, but because he spoke to power around the world, and spoke to our individual conscience, to our better angels – because of him, they will have a better life,” Leahy said.

Bono spoke Friday not long after President Obama addresssed the symposium to announce the New Alliance for Food Security and Nutrition  — an historic effort between G8 member nations, African countries and the private sector designed “to lift 50 million people out of poverty over the next 10 years through inclusive and sustained agricultural growth.”

A key part of the new alliance is the promise of $3 billion in investments from more than 45 private sector firms around the globe, including U.S. seed, chemical and agricultural equipment companies DuPont, Monsanto and Cargill, for agricultural programs on the African continent in the next few years.

“If you listen – and actually at the ONE campaign we really try to listen to what people in the developing world want  – they will say, ‘We have a lot of what we want already we just can’t get to it,’” Bono said. “‘Make it easier for us to do business,” they tell us, “for our entrepreneurs, for our farmers.’”

“Well, President Obama is talking business this morning. Secretary Clinton is about to talk some business. And we think that’s great. They’re bringing U.S. companies and African business leaders together. That’s exciting. This G8 — its’ not just an aid agenda, it’s a trade agenda. Of course it is. What do you think we are? We understand this.”

In his nearly 20-minute speech, Bono hailed the progress that has been made in combatting extreme poverty, hunger and disease in Africa in recent years. The key to that success and any in the future, he insisted, is one thing: Transparency.

Africa may be home to 400 million of the world’s poorest of the poor, but it is also one of the richest lands on Earth in terms of untapped natural resources (both geological and human), he said. As Africa’s bountiful resources — gold, oil, natural gas, precious metals and mineral deposits — are extracted in the coming years, without transparency billions of dollars will find their way into the pockets of a corrupt few rather than the African people who need and deserve them.

“Can we manage the oil as well as the farmland? Manage it properly, responsibly, transparently?” Bono asked the audience. “Because when we don’t, you know what happens. Hundreds of billions of dollars got lost to oil and gas corruption in Nigeria. That’s what the watchdog groups are telling us. Just mind blowing. Huge numbers.

“Crops need sunlight. So does resource extraction. Both need sunlight’s disinfecting glare. Isn’t transparency the vaccine to prevent the worst disease of them all? Corruption. Everybody here knows that corruption kills more children than HIV/AIDS and malaria combined. So that’s what I want to leave you with. That very simple word. That very simple concept. Easy to say. Much harder to realize, especially in law. The word ‘transparency.’

“We won’t have food security without it,” he said. “But we will have oil riches without it but those riches will be held and hidden by very few hands.”

Here below is the transcript of Bono’s address. You can watch the video of his speech in its entirety HERE. His talk begins at the 4:27:30 time mark. 

 

BONO:

Better said of Pat Leahy, I would say, prizefighter for the world’s poor. What a sort of righteous voice. Louder – louder than any rock band, actually, that big voice. He’s been to a few U2 shows but I think at heart, he’s a Dead Head. Yes, the mans’ a follower of the Grateful Dead, even with that shiny pate. But no greater prizefighter for the world’s poor and the people who deserve the compliments he’s just handed out are actually in this room.

Thank you, Pat.

And thank you for having me at this incredible forum. It’s a decision you may shortly regret.

You may have noticed that I’m one of the few speakers whose name isn’t preceded by His Excellency or the Honorable. My name is usually preceded by other adjectives. Use your imagination – you’re probably right.

I’ve only 10 minutes, so let me jump in. Ten minutes is not long if you’re Irish.

Bono aka “the girl with a beard” in Ethiopia, 1985.

Bono with his wife, Ali Hewson, in Ethiopia, 1985.

As some of you know it was a famine in Ethiopia by way of Live Aid that brought me into development issues 25 years ago. One of the not unimportant advantages of ending world hunger would be that you wouldn’t have to listen to me or my friends singing about feeding the world when you’re actually doing it. So there’s a lot at stake here.

Strange to say but it’s not just music that is subject to the whims of fashion – development too.  Hunger was kind of off the map in some quarters. Agriculture was old hat in some quarters. Boring. Unsexy. Of course it’s not boring if you live in the Sahel, it’s wasn’t boring to some of the people in this room and outside of it who have been agitating for some time now. This issue lies at the very heart of self-sustaining development. People like Jeff Sachs, Bill Gates, Mo Ibrahim, Tom Arnold I thought I saw there from CONCERN. David Beckmann. I see a lot of friends. The Chicago Council itself whoa re hosting today,  I’d like to thank them for their work raising and banging the drum…So thank you.

The president of the United States as it turns out is also one of them. So I think we should give it up for the president because if the words of his speech this morning are turned into bold action in partnership with the developing world and the private sector, then today was a real moment. And we would love that to be true, and I think that might be true.

Now, Irish people like to think we understand food insecurity. You see, 150 years ago 2 million of us lost our life to the famine and another 2 million became policemen in New York, Boston, Chicago. In those three cities, I’ve never had a speeding ticket. Never! But I’m not going to talk about Ireland or Ethiopia and my time there then or more recently because you’re the professionals, you’re the experts. You’ve seen more than I’ve seen, you’ve seen things you don’t want to have seen, things that have changed the way you see everything else. Things that have changed.

Certainly the conversation has changed. Aid is way, way smarter than it was because of science, technology, accountability, learning from mistakes. And one more thing: It’s finally dawning on most of us that the continent that contains the most poverty also contains the most wealth. Four hundred million of the world’s poorest are in Africa, but the continent is rich. Richer than rich. I mean the land and what’s beneath it.

Imagine 19th century America — plus elephants. Imagine a place of unbelievable plenty. A place bursting at the seams, bursting at the seams of gold, reserves of oil, gas, gold, tin, colt and copper. You heard the president talk about how much of the world’s undeveloped arable land is on the continent of Africa. I think it’s 60 percent. Not to mention the human resources living on top of this wealth. That’s the Africa that’s in the room today and I don’t dare to speak on its behalf. I speak as a fan.

A lot of people say the 21st century is about China. Well, ask the Chinese ‘cuz they’re all over Africa. They figured out by 2050 the population of Africa will nearly double China’s. Think about that. Ask Walmart. Walmart invested  $2.4 billion in Africa. They see the potential. Actually not just the potential, they see the reality.

How many of the Americans here, how many of the Europeans (yuck), wouldn’t swap your economic growth rate with much of Africa’s right now. So the challenge is not the old one of how to make up for a lack of resources, the challenge is how to well manage an abundance of resources and how to make sure this bounty benefits all people over the long term, not just the few people in the short term; how to use this plenty to eliminate poverty, extreme poverty, and this is new.

Now, though the old problems persist, I think you can see today that the way we’re addressing them is different and it has to be. What President Obama’s announced today is new, it’s a new approach to managing these resources as partners, not patrons. Horizontally, not vertically. Not what we give to them but what we, all of us, can do to take plans that are country owned, country led and help them succeed. By the way there are country devised plans ready today that if they are fully supported that will get us to that magic number of 50 million being lifted out of poverty. There are 30 plans ready today to get to that 50 million number being lifted out of poverty. That will prevent millions from stunting.

You know what is absolutely maddening – I know you know – you’re standing in front of some beautiful child who is clearly no longer hungry, but there’s something missing. That cognitive dissonance. And you realize how vulnerable those early years are.

You don’t have to be poor to be utterly impoverished by that sight.

And by the way it’s not just African governments that we’re in partnership, it’s African business, African civil society. That’s what’s changing this whole debate. We’re listening. Can we listen enough? No. So what we’re talking about this morning is what all of us can do to unlock what’s in the soil, in the seed, in ground, in the rock beneath our feet.

Well there’s one rock above ground that I can see now. You know what it is? It’s a headstone. A big slab of granite on what we around here used to call the “donor recipient relationship.” As you know, it’s been dead for a while and this is not even the funeral. This is the wake. It’s kind of an Irish wake. Ya know, people are in a better mood than they should be, just for a second we can raise a glass to past accomplishments in the old mode because some amazing things did happen. Debt cancellation, PEPFAR, Global Fund, MCC. Some crazy and bizarre things happened, too. Rock stars campaigning for historic AIDS initiatives in Krispy Kremes in the Midwest truck stops. And then the darker toe of undergraduates enforcing structural adjustments on countries they’ve never even visited. Ah the good ol’ days.

Bono talks with drivers and the media at the world’s largest truck stop in Walcott, Iowa, during the “Heart of America” tour in December 2002.

Let’s see today as a wake for all of that and its’ come at the right time. Why? Cuz’ guess what? We’re broke.

When the ONE campaign and I go busking for development assistance in this capital and the capitals of Europe in some quarters of the word “aid” sounds like an expletive. Really. It’s like you’ve brought a bad smell into the room. It’s like, ‘Ooh, that guy’s got body odor.’ But we need aid. Of course we still need aid. Of course we do. Does anyone disagree? Anyone apart from brain-dead, heart-dead idealogues or professional controversialists.

Come on. Everybody sane, every sensible person knows that.

The L’Aquila promises must be kept and be a baseline going forward and we’ve got to keep overall aid budgets on track, which is really a tough sell in these times. Has anyone been to Europe lately? Is it still there? I’m a proud European and I believe in the EU. Most people call us the IOU. Zero-point-seven commitment is a serious commitment but it’s under threat and so are the lives that it will support.

Very few countries have been courageous enough to keep their promises on aid. Ireland’s actually been doing it. Sweden and Norway, double doing it. The UK is doing it too. If you see David Cameron having an austerity pint at the bar, please shake his hand. It’s probably a gin and tonic, but shake his hand. Because this is serious leadership, serious courage and it puts him in a fantastic position to build his partnership for next year’s G8 in the UK. We’re counting on Germany, we need France, we need Spain. And let’s face it, a world without Italy would just be boring, ya know. (Thank God he’s gone.)

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in 25 years of doing this stuff it’s that paternalism – the old way we did development – is no match for partnership. It’s through a partnership, north and south, rich and poor, business and government that will reach our real goal. It’s the thing we all want. It’s the moment that we make aid history. It’s by partnership that we can hasten the day when the developing world will not only feed itself, but feed the rest of us. Because 9 billion people can get pretty hungry. A few weeks ago ONE CEO Mike Elliott was asking Greg Page, the head of Cargill, if a global population of 9 billion (which is where we’re headed) can actually feed itself. “Oh it can be done,” Page replied, “but it can’t be done without Africa.”

If you listen – and actually at the ONE campaign we really try to listen to what people in the developing world want  – they will say, “We have a lot of what we want already we just can’t get to it.

“Make it easier for us to do business,” they tell us, “for our entrepreneurs, for our farmers.”

Well, President Obama is talking business this morning. Secretary Clinton is about to talk some business. And we think that’s great. They’re bringing U.S. companies and African business leaders together. That’s exciting. This G8 — its’ not just an aid agenda, it’s a trade agenda. Of course it is. What do you think we are? We understand this.

Look I could and should go on about Feed the Future more than I am, but I’ve only go ta few minutes left, so instead I ask for your indulgence. Top soil isn’t the only resource we wish to mention here. There are riches. There are riches deeper down.

So before I quit I want to say a few words about oil and gas and precious metals and minerals. Rock stars love shiny things. This is the bling part of my speech. I know I’m over 10 minutes, but just stick with me.

$246 billion. That’s a lot of bling. That’s the value of what Africa’s extractive sector exported in 2009. Six times larger than aid receipts, seven times larger than agricultural exports. You don’t need me to tell you what wealth on that scale could mean for investments in health, education, roads, electricity. The lot. A lot. A lot of power to transform lives.  But only if we don’t blow the cash.

I know I’m not the best spokesman for responsible budgeting. I once bought a hotel. I thought because I stay in a lot of them I’d know how to run one.

But I do at least know that it’s essential that we don’t blow these extraordinary resources.

Can we manage the oil as well as the farmland? Manage it properly, responsibly, transparently?

Because when we don’t, you know what happens. Hundreds of billions of dollars got lost to oil and gas corruption in Nigeria. That’s what the watchdog groups are telling us. Just mind blowing. Huge numbers.

Crops need sunlight. So does resource extraction. Both need sunlight’s disinfecting glare. Isn’t transparency the vaccine to prevent the worst disease of them all? Corruption.

Everybody here knows that corruption kills more children than HIV/AIDS and malaria combined.

So that’s what I want to leave you with. That very simple word. That very simple concept. Easy to say. Much harder to realize, especially in law. The word “transparency.”

We won’t have food security without it. But we will have oil riches without it but those riches will be held and hidden by very few hands.

Transparency. When promises are made we need to know what they are and how they’ll be fulfilled.

Transparency. When tax dollars are being spent we need to know what good they’re doing.

Isn’t it striking that the people who know the very least about aid flow are the people who pay for it – the taxpayers – and the people whose lives depend on it.

That is insane.

According to the World Bank, since debt cancellation an extra 46 million children are going to school today across Africa. That is incredible, is it not?

But how do we know? Because we insisted on tracking the money.

An extra 46 million children going to school because of solid accounting and smart African leadership. This is ffffnnmm…GREAT!

That’s what we need to do whether we’re talking about aid flows or private investments or national budgets. Track where the money is coming from, and where it goes and what good it’s doing.

This will root out corruption, this will help stem land grabs, this is more efficient. More importantly, it will strengthen the hand of the poorest in whose name this is supposed to be happening.

Look, U.S. Congress has done something truly seismic in this respect, something transformative for the world’s poor and we didn’t even talk about it today, really. Nobody knows about it, nobody except the African leaders who are here. They know all about it.

You know that Congress required extractive companies to publish what they pay to oversees governments project by project with no exceptions. It’s huge. This is knowledge that citizens can use to hold their leaders accountable. It is great stuff.

I personally met with 12 out of the G20 heads of state, rakes of finance ministers on this point. We’re so excited about it.

Why are we doing this? Because we’re listening. We’re listening to the people we seek to serve. And this is what they’re telling us to do.

So if I’ve gone too long and if you’re scratching your heads about why I’ve started on about extractives at an agriculture and nutrition event – and I know Raj [Dr. Rajiv Shah, head of the USAID]isn’t – as we approach 9 billion people on this finite planet, resource scarcity will be a recurring theme and risk factor.

These agendas of food, of land, of water, timber, fisheries, energy — renewable or otherwise — they’re actually the same agenda.

And that’s the key thing I want to leave you with this morning. It’s the same agenda. What started today, what President Obama has announced today, is a sign of what the G8 — and the G20 in six weeks time — can achieve. This can be a one-two punch on a resource agenda that to make this a very memorable year. In the middle of all this economic awfulness something could actually happen here.

Africa rising. Africa starving. It’s the clash of the clichés. Poverty and plenty. They’ve coexisted in Africa, they coexist here. You heard the president talk about hunger in America. This is the paradox of the world we live in and that most people in this room have given their lives to resolve.

And can I say, to end, can I say how humbled I am to be in this company. I work hard on this, part-time. You have spent your lives trying to cure these ills — your whole lives — to cure the most troubling contradictions of life on this Earth. It’s hard but you’re still here. Still fighting this fight. Even fighting about how to fight this fight. — a fight toward fairness, against despair, against the depravity and the depressing injustice of hunger.

This could be the moment when the people you serve, the people who till the soil, who draw the well from deep down beneath it, see most or more of that benefits of that vital work. This could be the moment that all of us as partners see the scales tip from poverty toward plenty. How peaceful this century turns out to be and how prosperous it turns out to be might just depend on this.

Thank you for your patience. Thank you.

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Cathleen Falsani is Web Editor and Director of New Media for Sojourners. You can read Cathleen’s spiritual profiile of Bono in her book The God Factor: Inside the Spiritual Lives of Public People. Follow her on Twitter @GodGrrl.

Cathleen will be speaking at this year’s Wild Goose Festival outside Durham, N.C. A cousin of the storied Greenbelt Festival in the U.K., the Goose is a four-day festival of “justice, spirituality, music and art” on a farm in rural North Cackalacky.

June 21-24, 2012: The Wild Goose Festival
Shakori Hills, North Carolina

GG is scheduled to speak twice on Saturday, June 23:

 >> 10 a.m. at the Coffee Barn: “The Thread: Anam Cara”
 >> 3 p.m. at the Return venue:  “Gracespotting: Listening to Your Life
But wait! There’s more!

God Girl’s beloved, Maurice “Crime Boy” Possley, also is speaking at the Goose!

The justice theme of this year’s festival has a “particular focus on the issue of prison, criminal justice reform, and restorative justice, hearing from both survivors of crime who advocate for a more compassionate justice system and exonerated former prisoners; we will offer workshops on forgiveness and revenge, and restorative justice.”

Maurice will be speaking twice on Saturday, June 23:

11 a.m. >> “Innocence and Exonerations,” (a conversation with Theresa Newman and James Coleman, co-directors of The Innocence Project at Duke University.)

3 p.m. >> “Pursing Innocence, Finding Faith

To find out more about Wild Goose and how to purchase tickets to this unique event, click HERE.

Participants in “Two Days with Rob Bell” prepare for a lunchtime surfing session in Southern California earlier this month. Photo by Cathleen Falsani/Sojourners.

How do you step out and take a risk — as a pastor, as an artist, as a parent, as a person — when the job description of a pioneer or a vanguard comes with the assurance of persecution?

“Surrender the outcomes,” Rob Bell told the audience at his intimate gathering, Two Days with Rob Bell, in Southern California earlier this month.

“Surrender the outcomes of your presence, your influence, your work, your leadership,” Bell said. “They may drink the coffee. They may not. That’s just how it is. When you come to terms with this, then you’re actually free.

In other words, it’s not about you.

If, as a pastor, parent, or person, if you do what you do because you’re called to do it — without expectations, without needing a particular response, without hitching your wagon of joy to someone else’s reaction (or lack thereof) — you free not only yourself, you liberate others as well.

A pastor who needs the constant approval of her or his congregation isn’t free. And neither is the congregation.

“But you know, if they have found joy simply in doing the work, when they have found their center and their joy…you know it’s a gift with no strings attached. They are free and you are free,” he said. “It’s intoxicating.

Eugene Peterson goes into a pastor’s convention and just slays it,” he continued. “You’re like, ‘What was that?!’ You know why? He doesn’t need you to like him. He doesn’t need anything from you. And that’s why you want to hear him over and over again.”

Yes. But innovators such as Peterson come under unbelievable criticism. Where do you put that?

“Pioneers are crucified,” Bell said.

One of the men in the audience interrupts: “How do you know whether you’re being crucified because you’re a pioneer or because you’re just wrong?”

Rob Bell listens to a question from the audience at a conference in early May. Photo by Cathleen Falsani/Sojourners.

Bell smiled.

“If you’re being crucified because you’re wrong, I wouldn’t call that crucified. I’d say that’s just really sharp critique,” Bell answered.

Heads nodded in agreement.

In Matthew 28, the writer tells us that even after Jesus rose from the dead and appeared to the disciples and his followers, some folks still didn’t believe.

“There was a group there that doubted,” Bell said. “He’s risen from the dead … and there are still people who don’t buy it. What an interesting thing Matthew does here [by including that bit of information.] You simply cannot control the outcomes of your work. You cannot control how people respond to you … to your presence, your talent, your work, your action in the world.

“You can pastor people, you can love them. You can absolutely rip your heart out and put it on a plate for them week after week after week … and you cannot control whether they will be your friend, whether they will listen, whether they will walk away, whether they will stab you in the back. It’s simply not possible. But it is possible to live with the great illusion that if you do certain things you will achieve a certain result — and that’s simply not true. The sooner you come to terms with this, with our powerlessness, the more joy you will have.”

God doesn’t love you because of what you do or don’t do or how well or badly.

Think of the Gospel description of the day John the Baptist baptized his cousin, Jesus, in the Jordan River. And the heavens opened and the Holy Spirit descended and the voice of God proclaimed: “This is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased.”

“Jesus hadn’t ‘done’ anything yet,” Bell said. “He hasn’t achieved anything. He doesn’t have an impressive bottom line. He hasn’t given any sermons, no crowds have gathered yet.”

And yet … God already is well pleased.

“Is there anybody who needs to hear, ‘This is my girl; this is my boy’? That’s your job.”

Cathleen Falsani is Web Editor and Director of New Media for Sojourners. Follow Cathleen on Twitter @GodGrrl.

Rob Bell speaks to a small gathering in Southern California earlier this month in “Two Days with Rob Bell.”

“Oh, a dolphin.”

The speaker, dressed in khaki jeans, a blue t-shirt and flip-flops, interrupts his train of thought about spiral dynamics and the church when some movement in the ocean a few hundred yards away on the other side of the beach house’s open briefly catches his attention.

The audience of 50 — mostly 30- and 40-something-year-old pastors, the vast majority of them men, but with at least a few young clergywomen too (a refreshing change from most evangelical gatherings of this kind) — laughs heartily and more than a few attendees crane their necks to try to catch a glimpse of a dorsal fin in the distance.

The sounds of the Pacific crashing on the shore mix with a reggae tune playing on the outdoor stereo of the bar next door as the speaker, a 41-year-old former pastor and bestselling author, resumes his riff on categories of consciousness and the spiritual practice of meeting people exactly where they are.

Rob Bell isn’t in Kansas … I mean Michigan … any more.

Six months ago, Bell left the position he’d held for a decade as lead pastor of Mars Hill, a “Jesus community” (read: church) in Granville, Mich., and moved with his wife and three children to this seaside surfer town in Southern California to take a break from the limelight and see what God has planned for him in this next phase of life as a more private citizen.

Earlier this month, Bell, author of Velvet Elvis, Sex God, Drops Like Stars and last year’s controversial bestseller Love Wins (wherein he boldly suggested that traditional notions of heaven and hell might not be the whole story), casually stepped back into the semi-public square to host a two-day conference, Two Days with Rob Bell, in a beach bungalow for four dozen attendees who have traveled to his sleepy new hometown from around the country to talk about ministry, calling, spiritual health and the creative process.

Bell announced the event, which was not promoted publicly, in early March in a note sent to an email list of folks who have attended some of his speaking events in the past. It was a first-come, first-served invitation limited to 50 people. It sold out in a day.

Among the conversation topics Bell invited attendees to join him for were:

+ How do we feed our own soul when we’re leading and speaking to and giving to so many others?

+ Does the creative process ever get easier?

+ Where do new ideas come from?

+ How do we find space to open up and think and breathe deeply when our schedule is so full so often?

+ How do we handle criticism? And does it get any better?

+ What do we do with doubts/questions we have that if we shared them with the people we lead they’d head for the doors? (Or they’d send us for the door?)

+ How do we communicate to people who are at very different stages of growth and maturity and worldview and yet they’re all part of the same group?

Few other details were offered and as the gathering convened one morning earlier this month in the living room of a breezy beach house, no one knew quite what to expect. There were no nametags, no assigned seating, and no carefully planned minute-by-minute agenda, no contrived breakaway small groups to discuss talking points. Bell invited folks to feel free to interrupt and interject questions and comments any time. It’s a conversation. This is a safe place, a judgment-free zone. All are welcome to speak their hearts and minds.

Why is Bell doing this?

“Because sometimes we need to drop what we’re doing, step out of our routine, breathe in some fresh air, and be reminded that we signed up for a revolution,” he says.

Moving to Southern California has been “healing” for Bell, he says, and it would seem that’s an experience he’s eager to share with others.

From the reaction of the intimate crowd on the first day of the conference, it appeared that many of these “professional Christians” were deeply grateful for his generosity. There was a palpable ease in the room. Shoulders dropped. Shoes came off. Conversation came naturally and was plentiful.

Christianity calls us to be our best and most authentic selves, Bell told the crowd. The faith is meant to lead us into who God created us intrinsically to be. It’s a sacred and holy call and looks differently from person to person.

“Who you aren’t really isn’t that interesting,” Bell says, as he riffs on the passage from the Gospel of St. Matthew (Chapter 26) when Jesus tells his disciples that his coming — his ministry, he raison d’etre — is headed somewhere: the cross.

When Peter balks at the news, troubled by human concerns, Jesus says, “Get thee behind me, Satan.”

“What’s interesting is that Jesus seems to totally overreact,” Bell says. “But I wonder if he’s reacting to a spirit of ‘don’t throw yourself all in, hold back.’ No, Jesus says. ‘Get thee behind me Satan.’”

Paraphrasing Martin Buber, Bell continues, saying, “There are Yes and No positions in life. The position of self-centered holding back and then the position of YES…. A lot of leaders spend an extraordinary amount of energy trying to figure out, ‘Who am I to do this?’ That’s a great question, but you’ll never get an answer to that.

“I don’t know why God has you there. I don’t know why you are successful over here and someone else isn’t over there,” he says. “’Who am I [to do this]?’ is a shame question. Who aren’t you?”

Questions about success and blessing can be just as difficult as questions about suffering and failure, Bell says.

“Blessing can create just as many questions that cannot be answered. I don’t know why you have the ability and it seems almost effortless. I don’t know,” he says. “When I wrote my first book, I spent 90 percent of my energy trying to figure out if I was a writer. Who am I to do this? Who aren’t I?

“Especially with success, people’s heads just spin. ‘Why are all these people coming to me?’ I don’t know. The better question is what are you going to do with what you’ve got? As the great theologian Chris Martin [of Coldplay] says, ‘I can’t dance like Usher. I can’t sing like Beyonce. I can write songs like Elton John, but we can do the best with what we’ve got.’”

As the conference breaks for a long lunch, Bell leaves the group with a word of encouragement: “Take a walk on the beach.”

Today during the lunch break, Bell has offered to take any attendees who are interested surfing. About 40 have said they’re game.

Surf’s up.

Cathleen Falsani is Web Editor and Director of New Media for Sojourners. Follow Cathleen on Twitter @GodGrrl.

Cathleen and Helen Falsani, circa Easter 1973.

“My mother… she is beautiful, softened at the edges and tempered with a spine of steel. I want to grow old and be like her.” ~ Jodi Picoult

When asked to describe my mother, Helen, my usual answer is: Queen Esther in espadrilles and a matching purse.

Esther comes to mind when I think of Mom because she was fiercely loyal, smart, determined, brave and deeply faithful. The sartorial descriptors capture my mother’s somewhat less spiritual side – always put together with a classic sense of style (although these days she leans more toward head-to-toe matching ensembles from Chicos and alligator flats, now that her penchant for wearing pointy-toed heels in the ‘60s and ‘70s have caught up with her poor feet.)

Mom has impeccable style and staggering grace, particularly in the midst of trials and tribulations. She is flinty (think Katharine Hepburn) and has an abiding, deep-in-her-DNA faith [think St. Therese of Liseux.]

Helen is a force with which to be reckoned and woe to you who would make the mistake of messing with anyone she loves.

My mother and I are a lot alike and yet very different, which has, for much of my life, not always made for the most harmonious of relationships. But I admire and adore her and I think she’d say the same of me. I don’t have words to express properly how grateful I am for her love and even more so for her unwavering love for God and all of God’s children.

A few years ago, I became a mother for the first time. Such life passages have a way of making one more reflective and I have spent a lot of time recently thinking about Mom, motherhood and the lessons Helen has taught me that I now hope and pray to pass on to my son.

Those lessons are legion, but her are a few of the most important:

Love first. Ask questions later.

While she might not use the same words to describe it, this is, in a nutshell, my mother’s approach to life. She has strong beliefs and even stronger opinions about everything from doctrine and politics, to politesse and the inexhaustible merits of ironing boards that she is never, ever shy about sharing.

That said, however, whether she has problems with someone’s lifestyle, theology, wrinkled chinos or not, her first (and last) instinct is to love them.

I remember vividly the weekend of my wedding 15 years ago when she overheard someone making disparaging remarks about the dear friend of mine who graciously flew from Chicago to Connecticut to play the piano (DeBussy’s “Claire de Lune”) as I processed into the church with my bridesmaids.

My friend is gay. While my mother had strong opinions about that, they flew out the door when she heard the unkind words. I thought she might draw blood right there in the church. She loves my friend. She loves him because I love him. She loves him because God loves him. And she loves him fully, unabashedly and, yes, with the fierce protection of a mother bear.

I want to love like she does. And my prayer is that my son will love like his Grammy does, too.

Be generous.

Our family is not wealthy. We are decidedly working class and both of my parents are first-generation Americans – the children of immigrants from Italy (Daddy) and Ireland (Mom.) My parents raised my brother and me in one of the most affluent places on Earth: Fairfield County, Connecticut.

While there were times when my parents struggled mightily with their finances and fought back the urge to try to keep up with the Joneses, there was never a question of not having enough to share with anyone who needed it – no matter what the “it” was: time, money, clothes, food, affection, prayer, etc.

My mother would give you the shirt off her back. She’s the first one to stop by with a tray of cupcakes or lasagna for friends and family, for celebrations, sicknesses or bereavements. She’s the first one to spot the person lurking in the church narthex who needs a hug or a word of encouragement. She sends thank-you notes, birthday cards, verses of scripture, flowers, and “hey-i-love-yous” all the time. It’s part of her spiritual practice. It’s part of who she is.

I love my mother’s generosity. Truly, it’s one of her most beautiful qualities and it’s one of the virtues she’s passed on indelibly to me and now to her grandson. We are so grateful she’s taught us – in word and in deed – how to pay it forward and share the blessings we’ve been given.

When the going gets tough, keep going.

Ten years ago, my father had cancer, fought it and won. And then five years ago, doctors told my mother she had breast cancer. She had a double-mastectomy, reconstructive surgery and is blessedly cancer-free. She emerged from that battle stronger, more vibrant and more full of energy than before.

Helen is like the Steve Austin that way: Better, faster, stronger.

But it wasn’t the doctors alone who did the rebuilding. It was God. Her faith throughout my father’s cancer battle and her own was extraordinary. I recall walking into the recovery room after they wheeled her out of surgery, when she opened her eyes and looked at me with unbelievable clarity. “It went perfectly, Mom, they got it all,” I told her.

“Praise God,” was her response, her first words, her first thought.

In the last few years, I’ve watched in awe as my mother has risen to perhaps the greatest challenge of her adult life as my father’s mind and body have changed with the onset of Alzheimer’s.

For most of my life, Daddy did the cooking, the cleaning, the fixing, the driving, and the problem solving that kept our nuclear family going year in and year out. Daddy was a teacher and Mom worked in an office. He was home first and always had dinner ready and the kids sorted by the time she came home from a long day. They’ve been empty nesters for 20 years and retired for about five. Daddy loves taking care of people – most of all his beloved wife of 49 years. But now…he can’t.

And now, Mom takes care of him with a kind of zeal, fervor and determination that inspires me and all who know them. The love she shows my father moves me to tears, the tenderness they have for one another, the patience (neither her strong suit nor her daughter’s) that I can describe only as “divine” and the great humor with which she’s rolled with the seismic changes in Daddy’s health and presence are … well, I don’t have words that do them justice.

Amazing grace, comes closest, I suppose.

PRAY. (Full stop.)

The motor that keeps my mother – and our whole family – running is prayer.

Helen is a prayer warrior. She prays in the Spirit. She prays without ceasing. She prayers for her family, her friends, her children’s friends (and their children), her neighbors, her church, the President and his family. She prays for strangers. She prays for the world. She prays to stop hurricanes from hitting the coast of Connecticut and they move out to see, away from land.

She prays in the morning. She falls asleep at night praying. She prayed for my husband years and years before I ever met him. She prays for the wife that my brother has yet to meet.  She prayed for my son long before he was even a thought in his father’s mind or mine. She prays for the woman that my son will marry some day, and for his children, whether she ever meets them or not.

She prays for protection, for strength, for divine favor. She prays for creative ideas, for doors to open (or close), for connections to be made, for healing, for reconciliation, for justice. She prays for Jim Wallis and his family. She prays for Sojourners. She prays for you.

My brother, my husband, our son and I pray all the time – ongoing conversations with our Creator, the author and finisher of our faith. And when we find that we can’t bring ourselves to pray, or simply forget to connect with the Holy that way, we know Mom has our back. Praying. Always praying.

It is my prayer that I would grow into the fullness of who God created me to be – the woman for whom my mother has been praying long before she held me in her arms as an newborn babe.

I am my mother’s daughter. Thanks be to God.

Happy Mother’s Day, Queen Helen. May you be surrounded by the grace you shower on everyone you know, this day and always.

Cathleen Falsan is Web Editor and Director of New Media for Sojourners. You can read more about Cathleen’s mother, Helen, in her memoir Sin Boldly: A Field Guide for Grace. Follow Cathleen on Twitter @GodGrrl and follow Helen on Twitter @AHighlyFavored1.

What can I give back to God for the blessings he’s poured out on me? I’ll lift high the cup of salvation—a toast to God! I’ll pray in the name of God; I‘ll complete what I promised God I’d do, and I’ll do it together with his people.

~ Psalm 116:12 (The Message)

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Pattie Mallette and her son, Justin Bieber, in NYC last year.

You might not be a fan of Justin Bieber, but I’m willing to bet there’s at least one young person in your life who is.

And while it may be hard for us adults to believe, young Bieber, the Canadian pop superstar, has brought the Gospel — of social justice and otherwise — to millions of fans (who call themselves “Beliebers”) around the globe.

Today — just in time for Mother’s Day — Bieber, 18, released the new single “Turn to You” from his forthcoming album BELIEVE. It’s a love song — a tribute to his mother, Pattie Mallette, who gave birth to her only child when she was just 17 years old. Both Bieber and Mallette are devoted Christians (evangelicals, in fact) and neither is shy about speaking about their faith publicly.

“God is the one that is orchestrating all of this and giving [Justin] such incredible favor,” Mallette said in an interview with the Hollywood Prayer Network last year. “And he knows that it’s for a purpose and a plan. And he’s not sure what all that entails yet and how he fits into that, but he knows that it’s by God’s hand.” Later this year, Mallette will release Nowhere But Up, a memoir (presumably chronicling her journey of faith and motherhood of the most popular teenager on the planet) with Revell Books, a division of the Christian publishing group Baker.

Mother and son are deeply committed to giving back (Bieber often uses the phrase “paying it forward” when talking about his charity and justice work with fans) to wit Bieber announced that proceeds from the new song, “Turn To You,” will go to a shelter for homeless women in his native Ontario. Publicly Bieber has been involved in a copious amount of charitable work, including raising funds for water projects in the developing world, disaster relief, and building schools in for the poorest of the poor in Africa, Asia and South America.

Bieber tweeted to his 20 million+ Twitter followers: “Happy Mother’s Day Weekend. this is for my mom and all those moms out there. here is #TurnToYOu”

He added, “#TurnToYou is out in some countries. Out later tonight in US and Canada. Help moms in need. Give them strength. thank u mom.”

This is not the first time Bieber has chosen to donate proceeds from his music to charity. A portion of the proceeds from his 2010 album, My Worlds Acoustic, which included the song “Pray,” went to the Children’s Miracle Network.

“I am in the position to give back thanks to my fans and God,” Bieber said at the time of the album’s release. “I wrote ‘Pray’ thinking I wanted to help others and I feel like I have a responsibility to do so. What is the point of doing all this if you can’t make a difference in others’ lives? This album is a gift to my fans and the money raised from it allows us all to help out.”

“Turn to You” by Justin Bieber

You worked two jobs
To keep a roof up over our heads
You chose life for me
No you never gave up
I admire you for the strength you instilled in me

You were so young
You were just my age when you had me
Mom, you were so brave
There was nothing that would stop or get in our way
And I know you will always be there for me

So when you’re lost and you’re tired
When you’re broken in two
Let my love take you higher
‘Cause I still turn to you

It was ’94
The year that everything started to change
From before, You had to be a woman
You were forced to change your ways
To change your ways

Then you found the Lord
You gave your life to Him
And you could not ignore
The love he had for you
And I wanted more of your heart

So when you’re lost and you’re tired
When you’re broken in two
Let my love take you higher
‘Cause I still turn to you

I don’t know what I’d if you left me
So please don’t go away
Everything that you are is who I am
Who I am today

So when you’re lost and you’re tired
When you’re broken in two
Let my love take you higher
‘Cause I still turn to you

‘Cause I, I turn to you

Justin’s album BELIEVE is scheduled to drop on June 19.

Cathleen Falsani is Web Editor and Director of New Media for Sojourners. She is the author of four nonfiction books, including her latest, BELIEBER!: Fame, Faith and the Heart of Justin Bieber. Follow Cathleen on Twitter @GodGrrl.